It's harry Kim we're talking about. In his mind after that "comment" she was "gagging for it" and by "it" I mean his dainty hand in marriage, where-after he would be just dumb enough to then think that he could change the Borg from the Inside, effect policy, make lives better for all the drones, and with the well being of trillions of mindless slaves at stake what does the heart of Harold Kim matter for but a hill of beans... Harry's heart is a bean. His brain is a bean too. Two beans. Two bean hill.
Look at how "she" pursued her "relationship" with Picard?
When that girl gets an idea in her silly little head, the universe can burn for trying to stop her usually. But this time she made her intentions obvious and then dropped the matter.
So the question up top is really what if that first comment was the beginning of a string of many ridiculous allusions towards harry by the Queen and her writers, even if this was the first evidence of Borg humour and she was taking the piss.
The reset button can be an anal mistress.