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Accepting a job.. and then getting a better offer

Thanks for the replies,everyone.. She had a very successful interview with Company B yesterday. She'll hear by tomorrow if she's been offered the job. I've woven some of your thoughts into conversation with her about what to do, but at this point she's still a bit on the fence..

Thanks again!
 
Take what you can get, take what you can get, a job is a job is a job, and right now they are hard to come by
 
Well sounds like good news for her.

I'm late to the party, but just went through a similar situation.

After a successful interview at my company A I was told that I was accepted and to expected a package with sign on date and salary offer. A caveat was that the process was delayed due to some restructuring in the department.

Within a couple of days I saw another opportunity at a company that I had an inside contact at. I had heard good things about the company and decided to check it out.

That process was successful and I received an offer from company B. I called company A to check on the status of the offer from them at that point. During that call I was told that due to the restructure, the position I was applying for had been eliminated, good by and good luck.

OF course I accepted company B, which now that I know even more about company A vs B I'm much happier about how it all worked out.

Moral? Chickens before their hatched, you don't have the job until the first pay check clears, something like that...
 
At this point it's a gamble.

Sure job with company B or a better job at company C which is not 100% sure she'll get.

Looks like she can't let B hang on for a while to see if it pans out with C so she only has two options. Gamble or take the secure B option. If the gamble fails she may fall through completely if B close the door for her because she made them wait.

If this were her private life and B/C men than it would have been despicable of her but it's business and to be honest there's little room for honor in there. Companies will fire you if it suits their bottom line (doesn't matter if you are their best employee or there for 25 years) so why should anyone have any obligation to a company apart from fulfilling their contract.

No contract no obligation.
 
When you are not sure, always go with the approved method for the SATs and answer 'C'.
 
Just remember how employers have NO loyalty to "you" the worker. Id say they take whatever job is the best and highest paying. Its too bad if their situation changes and they want job C. They owe NOTHING to any of these employers. As the employers wouldn't hesitate a second to cut you loose. And also follow the other advise that you NEVER tell any employer that you are looking for another job or taking interviews or that you have been made an offer. The employer never gives the worker the heads up that they are looking to replace you.

This.

As a highly credentialed seasoned professional who was 'acquired' in an acquisition of my wonderful little company by mammoth IBM 2.5 years ago, I have been sitting around for those entire 2.5 years watching the top guys at IBM lay off tens of thousands of highly skilled professional workers (accountants, engineers, software developers, skilled project managers, techies of all kinds) in the US and Canada, despite continued IBM profits in even the worst of times...and replacing those loyal people (many of whom had been with IBM 25+ years and were gypped out of their pensions in the layoffs) with cheap and incompetent labor in Brazil and India....who now rely upon the few Americans and Canadians left to do their jobs for them because they are so utterly incompetent and lacking in any sort of urgency about deadlines, work quality, or anything.

For these 25+ year IBM employees laid off, IBM had barely a word of thanks to say. It was very much a case of "Don't let the door hit you in the ass on the way out!" And this is toward hard working, competent people who had poured their entire lives into that company.

The moral of the story: The Man does not give one solitary SHIT about you. And would replace you in half a heartbeat with someone with a quarter of your skills, if they offered to work for half as much.

Greed on the part of the top guys in these companies is ruining said companies - because these guys are more concerned with short term profits (which effect their massive bonus checks) than they are with the long-term health and reputation of their own company (which they will likely not be around to see, given the short shelf-life of your average CEO). When you reach the point where 'doing it cheap' has become more of a priority than is 'doing it well', count on the fact that management no longer values it's most valuable resource - competent, professional, highly skilled workers.

Tell your friend to do what is right for THEM. Because I assure you, The Man will always do what is best for HIM. Even if it means screwing over those who have been the most loyal and most hardworking employees.
 
You never know what might happen during the course of the interview(s) / job offer(s) process. I was laid off from my company A with little notice. I had accepted at B. I wanted C and kept hoping for the best. They were very excited to interview me, but they kept dragging their feet to schedule one, and then eventually stopped calling. I had pretty much given up, then they called again all excited to interview me. I went in and thought it went well, but didn't get the job. It turned out to be a good thing in the end actually with all that was going on at the time. And then I had a good friend interview for the job and he got it. I was very happy for him because he needed that kind of pay and stability more than I did.
 
The employer never gives the worker the heads up that they are looking to replace you.

This is so true, I've never thought of it quite like that though. My guess is if they give you a heads up that if everyone's job is going in 6 months, you and everyone else will start looking now and they'll lose most of their work for before management can put their masterplan in motion.

"We are looking to move your job and 1000 other jobs to India in 6 months just so you know. Please don't quit before then please. We need you. But after that we won't need you"

After being laid off once, I've learned to pick up on warning signs that things are changing and it might not go well. Obvioius loss of business, managers having a lot more closed door meetings that usual, I'm sure others can suggest some. I make an effort to keep my resume up to date so when warning flags starting going off, I can make my resume visable on sites like monster and dice as well as start submitting it to job openings.
 
My problem is I have a very, very hard time quitting jobs... and it doesn't help when the employers call asking you to stay and offering concessions... but you need to think about *you* in the job market.
 
^ What he said...

Look out for your/and your family's well-being first.
Yup, and if it makes your friend feel better, never forget that the company would probably fire you if its in their best interest. It should be no different for employees. The employee needs to do what is in his or her best interest.

*EDIT-Looks like I was beaten to this by many people

:lol:
 
something similar is happening to me right now, company A in Dallas wants my skills, but is dicking around with me on a commitment, Company B in Albuquerque wants me to do some programming here, then send me to China for an undetermined period of time installing it in about a half dozen (maybe more) factories it owns, but wants to pay me a pittance, and Company C wants me in India for a permanant job, and won't give me the full details until I commit, add that to the fact that I don't want to go off to the middle of nowhere, and staying in Pensacola is going to be vital for a project that I have been working on myself for the past few years thats I finally have the capital to advance to the next phase on...*sigh*
 
^Companies that won't tell you all the details before you commits sends up all sorts of red flags in my book.
 
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