Where do you keep the pram?
Where do you keep the pram?
So, I have a dumb question, I've driven my whole adult life so I'm curious how do people without cars buy groceries? I often can't even get the groceries from my car into my house in one trip. How do you do it?
One of the reasons that I find it so easy to manage on a disability pension is my lack of a car. Many people have tried to pressure me into learning to drive and get a car. The say "what will you do if you can no longer catch a bus?" to which I answer "I will catch a taxi" which is still cheaper than having to buy, maintain and run a car especially as I could apply for disability taxi vouchers which means that I will only have to pay 50% of the taxi fare.Definitely hugely cheaper. I never wanted to become dependent on a car when I was very low income either. You're just fucked if you need a car to get to work, buy food, take kids to activities or childcare or attend appointments.. your whole LIFE. And because you are poor your car is a piece of crap and it breaks down and costs you hundreds of dollars or a new car to get your whole life back. It's a vicious circle. I remember my friend who was in the same financial situation as me crying on the phone because her car was stuffed, she had to borrow money to fix it, she didn't know how she was going to continue her life while waiting for it to be fixed.. and I was like, you live right next to the train. Your kids school is right next to the train. Your course is right next to the train. The supermarket is right next to the train.. but this was like some psychological impossibility to her.
Hear, hear!Automated cars are the tool of Beelzebub.
Even driving with an automatic transmission isn't really driving. It's just aiming the car.
Fortunatly only about 1 in 10 cars sold in the UK are automatics. Not overly kean on driving them. I prefer manual transmission.
So why do people think automatics are prefered in the US whilst manual ais preferred elsewhere?
This really illustrates that A) different people, and B) different types/levels of public transit service can influence the answer. For me, it's just the opposite: "planning my day around schedules" (and for the record, I would never even think to describe my reliance on public transit in those terms) has never bothered me. Are there snarls sometimes? Sure. A bus can be late, a train can go out of service, etc. But then, a car can break down, you can get stuck in traffic... I view the freedom of knowing that I pay far less to get wherever I'm going, and that I literally can't get stuck in traffic on a train and can zone out or read or whatever if my bus gets stuck in traffic (since I don't have to drive the thing) to far outweigh any benefit I'd have from owning my own car. But, I live in an area with good (not always great, plenty of problems, but overall, quite serviceable) public transit and disliked driving when I tried to learn. I never bothered to even get a license.I love driving. I love the control and freedom it gives me. People talk all of the time about subways, buses and other forms of public transportation and I shrug. If the only way I had to get from home to work and back was to plan my day around schedules and to sit next to some woman who smells like burned ocra yell into her phone I'd probably go nuts.
My car is sitting right outside. I can go to it right now and drive to anywhere I want, it's fifty feet away. THAT'S freeing and isn't something I can get from a bus.
Others have answered this, but I thought I'd chime in as well: it really depends on how far you live from stores. Not having a car becomes one of the factors that drives the decision about where you want to live: how is the transit in the area? Are there any grocery stores or major commercial areas within walking distance? Those are two of THE most important questions for me when I move - have been for the last decade+ of my life. We have a nice shopping area that covers most essentials within walking distance, and if we (meaning my roommate and I) buy too much to carry back up (it's a 10-15 minute walk each way), there's a bus line that runs from the stores to right up next to our apartment building.So, I have a dumb question, I've driven my whole adult life so I'm curious how do people without cars buy groceries? I often can't even get the groceries from my car into my house in one trip. How do you do it?
Caltrain?I like to drive, but it depends on the mood. I realized I had to learn to drive because I was getting so frustrated with the bus system we had. I don't mind the train
Curious, what part of the Bay Area are you in? I live there as well, in case it isn't obvious. The quality of bus service is quite up and down depending on where you are. AC Transit is mostly ok in the parts of Oakland I live in and frequent, though as a system overall, it's definitely got a lot of room for improvement. Still better on the whole than Muni, though.or BART, but taking the bus is awful.
To some degree, yeah. It does depend on where you are - the more heavily urbanized an area is, the less likely it is that everyone will have a car, or expect everyone else to have one. That said, the US does have a car culture; as a society at large, we kind of DO expect everyone to have a car. We use and rely on them way too much and have boxed ourselves into a situation where the infrastructure necessary to support alternatives has all been neglected for so long that said alternatives are often not very good; thus, people look at them and say "I'm not using THAT, it's no good. I need a car." Thus, the cycle repeats. Things are slowly starting to improve a little bit, though.It must be a mostly American thing. At least where I live(ohio) most look at people without cars as likely having their license taken away from DUI's. Or they think "oh, how quaint".![]()
You'd be surprised how many people wouldn't. That's part of the problem: the ubiquity of owning a car combined with the state of most American public transit options due to decades of neglect and underfunding have combined to create an atmosphere where many people view public transit as something to be used ONLY when absolutely necessary, or "only for poor people", etc.But, i guess if i lived someplace that had epic public transport i'd use it.
This is why I don't need a car - my bus service. People can tell me if they consider it good or not. This is the service that goes down the the main road that divides my suburb. I can catch any bus that is listed as stopping at Shoreline Central. The road is about 500 metres from my home. There is a bus service that comes closer to my home but that service only runs a few times on weekdays and not at weekends at all.
Did you try using the handbrake? That's what I do when I'm stopped on a slope. While keeping right foot on brake pedal, depress clutch with left foot and shift into gear. Apply handbrake, release brake pedal, then apply gas while releasing both clutch and handbrake. Just takes a bit of coordination.When I drove manual years ago, I had a really hard time stopping/starting on hills without rolling backwards. Hard as I tried, I never learned to comfortably maneuver three pedals with two feet.![]()
Did you try using the handbrake? That's what I do when I'm stopped on a slope. While keeping right foot on brake pedal, depress clutch with left foot and shift into gear. Apply handbrake, release brake pedal, then apply gas while releasing both clutch and handbrake. Just takes a bit of coordination.When I drove manual years ago, I had a really hard time stopping/starting on hills without rolling backwards. Hard as I tried, I never learned to comfortably maneuver three pedals with two feet.![]()
So, I have a dumb question, I've driven my whole adult life so I'm curious how do people without cars buy groceries? I often can't even get the groceries from my car into my house in one trip. How do you do it?
I have one supermarket and local shops within 5 minutes walk and two more supermarkets within easy bus reach. I have a large backpack and shop once or twice a week. Occasionally I'll do a really big shop and get a cab.
Your lifestyle develops according to your facilities - I never got a job, childcare or anything else that I needed to drive to get to. My life is perfectly OK without a car.
And hugely cheaper.
Definitely hugely cheaper. I never wanted to become dependent on a car when I was very low income either. You're just fucked if you need a car to get to work, buy food, take kids to activities or childcare or attend appointments.. your whole LIFE. And because you are poor your car is a piece of crap and it breaks down and costs you hundreds of dollars or a new car to get your whole life back. It's a vicious circle. I remember my friend who was in the same financial situation as me crying on the phone because her car was stuffed, she had to borrow money to fix it, she didn't know how she was going to continue her life while waiting for it to be fixed.. and I was like, you live right next to the train. Your kids school is right next to the train. Your course is right next to the train. The supermarket is right next to the train.. but this was like some psychological impossibility to her......
...people would say "oh you don't have a car? do you have a license? Oh.." and they would sound like they were gently talking about your disability in some sympathetic yet bewildered way. It's like saying you can't be bothered having electricity in your house, it makes absolutely no sense to people.
Did you try using the handbrake? That's what I do when I'm stopped on a slope. While keeping right foot on brake pedal, depress clutch with left foot and shift into gear. Apply handbrake, release brake pedal, then apply gas while releasing both clutch and handbrake. Just takes a bit of coordination.When I drove manual years ago, I had a really hard time stopping/starting on hills without rolling backwards. Hard as I tried, I never learned to comfortably maneuver three pedals with two feet.![]()
Beat me to it. Though I would recommend not releasing the handbrake until you've reached the clutch biting point and you feel the car is ready to go forward, then you can release the handbrake and if you are on the biting point you don't need the brake as the car would remain stationary. Then it's just a case of applying more acceleration and releasing the clutch to move off.
But it's like any other skill you learn to do it, and in Europe you generally learn to drive in a manual so it becomes second nature.
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