Finally able to read
Plagues of Night (thanks a lot for the spoilers in thread titles, folks, that was real nice of you

), and I note that, as you mention yourself in the other thread
rfmcdpei, and as was discussed earlier in this thread I think, we now have an openly gay head of state, Gell Kamemor, and it's absolutely no big deal (at least to Romulans). We also haven't seen anyone else display a problem with it (although that doesn't necessarily mean they
don't have a problem with it, only that either they don't know or are politic enough to keep their thoughts to themselves).
But I was also glad to see that John Candlewood has been promoted to Chief Science Officer of DS9. And since I made him gay in my fan fiction, I choose to count that as another gay senior officer in the Trek verse.
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