I can't tell if you're being deliberately ironic and funny or accidentally ironic and funny.
"Purist" who say "If it didn't appear on TV, it's not canon" really annoy the crap out of me. When the author of a series tells you "This is how it happened" there is always that person in the crowd who wants to say "That's not what happened on the screen".
Well you know what? If and official work from the person who WROTE the series contradicts something, it means a particularly writer of the episode may have failed to fact check. IT HAPPENS A LOT.
Well here's a news flash -- STAR TREK SERIES CONTRACT THEMSELVES too.
I actually get even more annoyed when seemingly everyone wants to sit back and say all these official relaunches don't count towards canon either. They are sanctioned, they are required to work within continuity and you now what? They took this route because Star Trek is having so much hard time getting a new series running.
If you're a true treky/treker, you're going to see their effort, you're going to applaud their effort and try to give it support where and when you can. Not sit back and discriminate against it because it doesn't fit into your nice, neat package of what constitutes "canon" in your book.
I think a lot of people forget that the term "canon" itself doesn't have a clear definition. The closest definition of canon that fits this scenario is:
http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/canon?s=t
the body of rules, principles, or standards accepted as axiomatic and universally binding in a field of study or art: the neoclassical canon.
By definition, canon doesn't say "Things that appeared on TV" nor does it say "works sanctioned by...". it says "Standards accepted as axiomatic and universally binding".
As I said before, I give a little more room to people who refuse to accept the relaunches and Star Trek online as canon because it's a touchier topic (although I often fail to understand why). I give no sympathy to people who refuse to recognize official material authored by Berman, Okuda, etc. because its all material based upon *THEIR* notes and *THEIR* intentions for each series.