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Ladies, what do you look for in a man?

I like guys with a sense of humor (occasionally perverse allowed as long as it's not mean-spirited); attractive in a non-conventional way (see my avatar :)); I like men who are kind and unassuming; men who who aren't afraid of hard work and at the same time like kicking back with family and friends. A happy traveler would also be a big plus.
 
I don't have a beard right now. :(
There there. Be strong.

I almost had a weird Wolverine thing going last week, but the hair on my head was too short to really pull it off.

Then yesterday I shaved my face. It's hard to go to work when you're in the inbetween stages of beard growth where you just look like a hobo.
I could totally do the Wolverine thing with some time and hair gel. I'm just two feet too tall, and I can't do a live action Wolvie either since I'm not nearly as good looking as Hugh Jackman.






Ah, Hugh...
 
You can learn much about a woman's preferences from her avatar. :D

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OH......dear. :eek:

It's a good thing the same cannot be said about my avatars.... especially if you asked me about a year or so ago. :evil:
Well seeing as I mostly have the Camaro these days I can't argue with having things I lust for in my av. Then again I don't lust for Conan, I just think he's awesome.

Also I've been meaning to ask you this ZR but what in the blue fuck is your avatar from? And is that Colin Firth? :wtf:
 
I must be too picky as I've been single for so long (:lol:)but:

Funny, nerdy and kind would be some great personality traits.

Tall, average weight and dark hair is what I tend to like. In the looks department, I'm with JiNX with the unconventional good looks :techman:

I like a man who is independent (no mommy issues), employed (no leeching), but plays nice with others (no anger management issues).

Basically, a man who knows who he is and wants a friend/partner to hang out with :)
 
My dream man?

Thoughtful, intellectual, funny, and just a little cynical. Someone who is Atheist but Humanist, whose politics and beliefs are in sync enough with mine to allow mutual respect and understanding, even if we don't agree on everything. Someone who is physical, who likes to get out but is also happy to stay in and play Scrabble, watch TV, or read together in bed. A man who takes care of himself and delights, just a little, in fashion. Someone who loves me, but who will give me plenty of space. Ideally a man who needs a lot of alone time, because I need a lot of alone time.
I would love a man who can sing and maybe play the piano; who'd write little melodies and sing them to me. And he'd have a delicious accent. But that's me getting all girly and giddy.

As for appearance, I will not say it is unimportant, because that's ridiculous. However, I find that an attractive personality will greatly change my perception of a man physically, so that men whom I might not initially be attracted to become very physically attractive to me. As general rules I tend to be attracted to tall, thin to fit men who are quirky in appearance in some way. But, as I said, personality can add enough sexy points to overcome a physical trait I usually find unattractive. For example, though I usually like them taaaaalllll, I dated a guy once who was only a couple inches taller than me (and I'm 5'2") -- he was one of the sexiest men I've ever been with.
There is a Sexy Points System, you know. I posted all about it a year or two ago, in a thread that (if I recall correctly) was about man boobs.

great. i'm as fashionable as a dead rabbit and have the same musical ability.

British accent. 6'1. toughtful. intelligent. cynical. atheist. happy to stay in. willing to give space for alone time. all checked off and THEN she mentions fashion.

damn. damn. DAMN!

THEN she makes it worse with mentioning MUSIC! :scream:

oh well...

You had me at "British Accent." ;)
 
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