Happy Mother's Day, Bitch

[Herkimer Jitty]

This kid just pisses me the hell off.

To further explain who, exactly:

My mom is housing one of her friends and her kid because she just lost practically everything due to economy suckage and to top it off, she had just recovered from cancer. And her 13-year old son is a fucking asshole. I was at my Mom's house for Mother's Day, and this kid was un-fucking believable. He had nothing to say about his mother for the 9 fucking hours I was there, except insults and insinuations that she hated him and she was a bad person. Good God man, your mother just lost practically everything she had and nearly died. The least you can do on Mother's Day is shut your disrespectful, stupid mouth. Your mom almost died for fuck's sake. And the kid respects nothing - seriously, he spends of all of his time making judgemental comments and being an asshole.

The closest thing he said in spirit to the day was "Happy Mother's Day, Bitch"

When I was 13, I would have fucking bawled my head off if my mother had cancer. And I always apologized later when I said nasty things about my parents because I experienced the emotion called remorse.

Not to mention the kid seemed to spend whatever time he wasn't being an inhuman bastard towards his mom trying to find what buttons he could push to try and set me off.

And he's a brat in the usual ways, demanding, ingrateful, etc.

I'm glad I don't spend most of my time at my mom's house, because frankly, I'd have caved the fucker's head in, regardless of the fact that he's younger and weaker than I.

I don't know if this is how kids are on average these days, but back when I was growing up, other people my age were goddamned human beings.

 

[James Bond]

You should have kicked the little fucker's worthless ass.

 

[think]

mom died at 27 years old from cancer cause she smoked three reds a day shot heroin and many other things .,,

one day she asked me if I would have sex with her.

Mom was sick I see that now., then at eleven when she died I just remember eating cereal with cooking spoons so black that they were to never come clean or wait the day we beat the dealer of his drugs or at least that is what I gathered from the experience because we ended up with bullet holes in the side of the car as we speed off and I had to get down on the base boards of the car mom did not drive the car too much after that.

she was a practicing witch before all this wicca nonsense when it was real you know but hey she had cancer from the life style she lead and was sick usually

Once I saw her go thru withdrawal you know chills and fevers and such she just could not control her body at all. mind you the reason was that at eleven I had dosed my self with the dope on the spoon one morning and spent the next week in the hospital where dyphus is out there as well probably worried that my mom's cancer was causing too much pain cause I had done all the pain meds ..,, and there was no more meds

I dont usually talk about these things on line sometimes just with friends and such but fuck what I would not give to comfort my mom today since she died back in 75.,

Peace

 

[sidious618]

Wow, think, that's a tough story. It's probably good to get it off your chest, though.

 

[think]

every now and then yes>> just growing up and such you know

 

[Gil T.Azell]

If I'd said "Happy Mother's Day, Bitch"
like that I'd still be digging myself out of the wall my old man would have put me trough.
That ingrateful little shit needs a good ass whooping.

Sadly I can no longer take my mother out for a mothers day lunch, she passed away January 3 1994.

 

[Dingo]

I wouldn't blame you if you gave the kid a good thrashing. He sounds like he deserved it. Don't kill him or nothing, but make him regret being a little prick.

 

[sidious618]

I think verbally destroying him is even better. Physicality solves nothing but a verbal smackdown is something someone never forgets.

 

[Dingo]

I think verbally destroying him is even better. Physicality solves nothing but a verbal smackdown is something someone never forgets.

Why choose when you can combine the two? Take a length of PVC pipe, stuff it with metal ball bearings and seal both ends with several feet of duct tape and strike this kid a few times while delivering the chew out he deserves.

 

[captcalhoun]

i woulda punched the little sack of shit.

 

[Dingo]

Variation number two of the PVC pipe solution. Stick said little shit into a burlap sack (ensure he is inverted for best possible resorts), find a sturdy hook and hang the sack from the hook then strike sack repeatedly with the PVC pipe stuffed with ball bearings.

Seriously the little bastard deserves an ass kicking!

 

[Miss Chicken]

This kid reminds me of my eldest son.

When my son was 14 he wamted me to buy him a 3-in-1 stereo for Christmas. I found one that was one sale for $129. This was 17 years ago so it would probably be about $300 in todays money. I put it on layby and it took me three months to pay off. I also bought him a couple of smaller gifts as well.

I was excited on Xmas Day because I thought that this present was going to pleased him so much. However he just bitched that it wasn't a very good stereo and that if I really loved him I would have got him a computer as well.

That year I only spent about $50 ior $60 on each of hos brothers. His 9 year old brother had only asked for something that cost $5 and was very gratefulwhen he got it and other things as well.

My eldest son (NOW 31) has not improved with age. He is still an arsehole.

 

[Deckerd]

every now and then yes>> just growing up and such you know

It's funny Think I thought you were much younger than that.

 

[Trilliam]

So, let me get this straight, this is a 13yo CHILD, whose entire existence has been thrown into turmoil. He nearly lost his mother and has seen her through a critical illness, he has lost his home, is living off the charity and kindness of your mum, sounds like he has an absent father (how much of the "man of the house role" has been pushed onto him), doesn't have the maturity and lifeskills to cope with his lot at present, and he is "acting out". Have I read you post correctly?

While I don't condone his behaviour, and if any of my 4 thought of treating me this way....they wouldn't get away with it, they aren't in the same "place" this CHILD is.

For all of those expounding the virtues of giving this kid a hiding - that will not solve anything. This kid needs help, not condemnation.

Just my 2cents worth.

 

[K'Ehleyr]

Think ~ that's a horrendous tale. I'm sorry you had to go through that.

As for the kid, he does need talking to. So many kids are so self-centred they don't realise how cruel and selfish they are being. Maybe in this case calling in 'the professionals' would be an idea. Maybe a doctor could refer him to a child psychologist to help him with his 'anger issues'. Or a cancer support agency might be able to advise. It could be better to get 3rd party help.
I certainly understand the urge to give him a whopping but that would only make him more resentful. Good luck HJ, I hope you sort something out for all of you.

 

[John Picard]

This kid just pisses me the hell off.

To further explain who, exactly:

My mom is housing one of her friends and her kid because she just lost practically everything due to economy suckage and to top it off, she had just recovered from cancer. And her 13-year old son is a fucking asshole. I was at my Mom's house for Mother's Day, and this kid was un-fucking believable. He had nothing to say about his mother for the 9 fucking hours I was there, except insults and insinuations that she hated him and she was a bad person. Good God man, your mother just lost practically everything she had and nearly died. The least you can do on Mother's Day is shut your disrespectful, stupid mouth. Your mom almost died for fuck's sake. And the kid respects nothing - seriously, he spends of all of his time making judgemental comments and being an asshole.

The closest thing he said in spirit to the day was "Happy Mother's Day, Bitch"

When I was 13, I would have fucking bawled my head off if my mother had cancer. And I always apologized later when I said nasty things about my parents because I experienced the emotion called remorse.

Not to mention the kid seemed to spend whatever time he wasn't being an inhuman bastard towards his mom trying to find what buttons he could push to try and set me off.

And he's a brat in the usual ways, demanding, ungrateful, etc.

I'm glad I don't spend most of my time at my mom's house, because frankly, I'd have caved the fucker's head in, regardless of the fact that he's younger and weaker than I.

I don't know if this is how kids are on average these days, but back when I was growing up, other people my age were goddamned human beings.

Sounds to me like mom didn't do a very good job of raising him and doesn't have a good relationship with her son. So, you need to put the blame where it belongs, cancer or no cancer. Not every woman is a fit and caring mother. Where's the father in this situation?

I don't think you know the whole story.

 

[JustKate]

It sounds to me as though the kid has some really big problems (I'm purposely avoiding the euphemism "issues") and he's taking them out on his mother. Which is no excuse, mind you, but there's something very wrong here besides that he's a self-centered little jerk. He is, no doubt, but there's something else too. His mom's been through a lot, but little a**hole though he is, so has he. I'd say they both need counseling - he to learn not to be an a**hole, and she to learn again how to discipline him appropriately. She probably hasn't had the energy - or the heart - to do so in a while, and I base this on the fact that even if my mother had almost died of cancer, she would for damn sure have disciplined me.

 

[freak]

Unfortunately, you're gonna run into some ungrateful frakker who doesn't give a shit about anybody but himself. If I had said those things to my mother, she'd kick my ass or better yet, kick me outta the house! Sounds like this kid doesn't have a heart. And he's at that rebellious age where he doesn't give a crap about anybody but himself. He sounds like trouble, if you ask me!

 

[hellsgate]

I took my Mom out to spend time with me today as its my Mom's birthday and Mother's Day this weekend in addition to being my day off. We saw "Star Trek" & "Wolverine: Origins" at Metrotown Mall. I got my mom Flowers, Pizza, Cake, Fruit Basket & a card. We lost my Dad when I was three months old & my sister was two. She worked whatever job she had to, with lots of help from friends & family to look after us. I always do what I can. The garbage, dishes. Take out the pile of newspapers she leaves in her room sometimes & I'll truck them to the recycling bin.

I'm sorry to hear that some of you had strained relationships earlier in your lives. I had my share of angry moments with my Mom, as I was much like the original poster's 13 year old when I was younger.

I'm not saying I'm perfect but I thank God for the fact my Mother never gave up on me when I truly truly truly deserved to be left at the side of the road to fend for myself.

To all those Moms / Single Dads going through times where your son has left a fist-sized hole in his bedroom door during a self-centered, superficial, materialistic blow-up, let me say this for your child / children....

"I'm Sorry, Dad/Mom. I was / we were very out of line. We're / I'm here to take one hundred per cent ownership and the consequences for the things I've / We've said and/or done to You or Your Property as I / We realize the harm I've / We've done. Again, I'm / We're really sorry. We / I understand that you're going to have a hard- time forgiving Us / Me or forgetting. We're / I'm here to work things out, if you'll continue to have Us / Me in your home and meet Us / Me half-way."

 

[Dingo]

For all of those expounding the virtues of giving this kid a hiding - that will not solve anything. This kid needs help, not condemnation.

I heartily disagree. Some people won't respond to anything other than force, and this little bastard seems like one of those sorts of people.

I know my rebellious streak was curbed by discipline (no I was not abused as a child) whenever I stepped out of line. If I was even 1/3 disrespectful to my mother my old man definitely let me know it and I'd always regret it later. But this little sociopath doesn't, it seems, so a beating with the PVC pipe with the metal ball bearings stuffing it should definitely force him into respect...