That's a lot of assuming. As it stands it's not played like that at all, so the result is that everything's connected a little too conveniently. Riker and Troi's son just so happens to have died because of the synthetic ban, Rios just so happens to have met Soji's sister. It reminds me of how the Star Trek prequels made this vast galaxy feel smaller by having so many things connected. Oh look, Chewbacca knew Yoda! Hey, that random bounty hunter in ESB is actually the template for ALL the clones that helped take over the Republic and kill the Jedi.