I personally don't see the value in comparing the Raimi films with Homecoming. I mean, I get it...we often compare movies in a franchise, but for my money the two are both really well done versions of their own particular take. Raimi made "classic Spidey" albeit set in the modern day, whereas Homecoming is an actual modern Spidey.
That's the problem--for all of
Homecoming's attempt to borrow elements from the classic period of
The Amazing Spider-Man comic, it was just copy+paste with out the same kind of dramatic substance from the source. Raimi's movies--as you point out--was the classic character in the modern day, and remains the adaptation closest to the heart of what made Peter Parker and his costumed half. Unfortunately for Tom Holland, he's shot in all directions--just being a thin character who never seems to understand the concept of responsibility (and I'm not strictly taking about that in relation to his comic origin with Ben Parker).
no, it means it was generic and lacked substance. lots of fun, cool fight scenes but nothing smart or unique with the film making.
Worst of all--especially for a Spider-Man film--is that it had no heart. Parker is all about that, wearing his feelings and reactions "on his sleeve", as the expression goes. This was all about trying anything to join the "club" when it should have provided a clear view of what drives him in this world--much like we learned that (and more) about Steve Rogers in
Captain America: The First Avenger, which was crucial as it supported why he's motivated to take every action going forward. That was completely missing from
Homecoming as a debut film, and contrary to some "MCU is perfect" cheerleaders, this was the Holland version's true debut, not the glorified cameo in CA:CW.
I would take spiderman 1,2, x-men 1 and 2 and the tdk trilogy over any mcu movies anyday of the week.
Raimi's Spider-Man 1 and 2. Easy choice if you want to see the essence of the character really come alive on screen.