But that never happened?
I felt they went out of their collective way to keep the Prime universe intact from a storytelling point-of-view and yet be able to go off and chart their own course.
I actually do appreciate that aspect of it. While the rumors are that Bad Robot wanted to preempt all TOS marketing for themselves and their new stuff, they weren't so arrogant as to destroy Prime. The Prime universe still exists. So I want story in Prime. The Abramsverse has little meaning to me and that affects how much I really care about it; i.e., not much. I've been consistent about that.
I'm still not sure I follow the reasoning why the Prime has more significance than the alternate reality?
SF, by definition, occurs in a "What if?" world, roots in our world or in a fantasy world. Due fantasy worlds like Star Wars or Lord of the Rings have
less impact due to their setting? Does the fact that TOS represents an alternate history in of itself (Eugeneics Wars in the 90s, namely) negate that impact after the fact? Would Abrams Trek be more impactful if it had been a clean reboot, with no Spock Prime?
No snarkiness here. These are legitimate questions.
Reasoning: Prime is where we are. The alternate reality is where we are not, and is therefor not relevant (to me). The only person from Prime who can possibly experience the alternate reality is Spock. If Prime is still intact, we will just continue through our own timeline without ever meeting anyone or bearing any consequence from the alternate reality.
SW/LOTR: These were never represented as optimistic futures for
our civilization. Although I care about SW, I don't care about it like I do Star Trek and its vision of
our future. It's from a long time ago in a galaxy far, far away. And LOTR just has no basis in our reality. They are not us. So yes, they have less impact, though not in the sense of an any less enjoyable ride through a fictional story. The movies themselves are fine, more or less, depending on criticisms of storytelling and movie-making, but are not really inspirational to how I want to live my life the way Star Trek has been for so many.