Have not read all the posts, so if I repeat anything it is because I agree with it! At 63 I will tell you this: 1. Learn to handle money. 2. Keep up your health, exercise and eat right. 3. Love! Even if you lose it, do it. Hubby of 29 years, well worth it. Still miss him, but do not regret. 4. Whatever age you are, beats the heck out of the other option...I'm sure hubby would agree if he could.