Discussion in 'Miscellaneous' started by rhubarbodendron, Feb 12, 2014.
Yeah that wasn't creepy or anything.
Now that's what I call love and peace!
Really? That's interesting. I don't think I've ever known anyone to do that.
Oh, I'm pretty certain she's married by now. It's been 16 years. I haven't kept up contact, as that does often happen when we all leave our high school years.
Kissing felt really intimate and I wasn't ready to do that or have sex initially. Eventually I was more comfortable kissing but realized I didn't want to have sex with anyone that I wasn't serious/in love with, so I stopped casually dating altogether.
It seems to have worked well for you, if I may say so. You seem much happier.
I had sex with the first guy I kissed. Approximately two hours after my first kiss.
I would have liked to, but my mom was chaperoning all of us that night. Damned high school and no driver's license.
No one has judged you for whatever personal standards you choose to live by. If you don't want to kiss on a first date, that's your business. It's when you treat your personal preferences as the standard for all others to follow, or look down on those who do something different, that people tend to call you on it.
You insinuated that kissing on a first date is indicative of people who are only interested in dating for sex as if it were fact for everyone. That's not true, and people pointed that out. That's all.
Also, throwing out IDIC as a philosophical afterthought doesn't give one carte blanche to be rude or judgmental beforehand. People on this board misuse and abuse the meaning of IDIC only slightly less than they do political correctness.
You work fast!
It was over seven years between my first kiss and the first time I had sex. Different girls, obviously.
My first kiss was at 10 so obviously the rest was quite a while later.
I once had sex with a girl, but only kissed her afterwards. However, I'm not foolish enough to assume that sex always leads to kissing!
Why, I never! Didn't you know that after a girl has sex with you and then she nags and nags about kissing and then you give in and kiss her, you'll never see her again?
This thing you call "kissing" - I wish to know more about what happens.
I kissed a girl, and I liked it.
Hope your boyfriend don't mind it?
By the way, my ChapStick is strawberry.
Mine is *A* strawberry. That's what the North Sea does to you.
You shouldn't go skinny dipping in the North Sea.
Eh, Germany disagrees with you.
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