I've lost intrest in sex.

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  1. Jayson

    Jayson Vice Admiral Admiral

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    I still see girls I find to be sexy but I don't seem to have the sexual desire I use to. Maybe it's because I am 35 years old or maybe because I am fat. I don't even masturbate daily like I use to. Anybody else feel like this?

    Jason
     
  2. Paradon

    Paradon Rear Admiral Rear Admiral

    WHAAaa...?
     
  3. Kestra

    Kestra Vice Admiral Premium Member

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    Sex is wonderful.
     
  4. Asbo Zaprudder

    Asbo Zaprudder Rear Admiral Rear Admiral

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    Medication?
     
  5. Deks

    Deks Rear Admiral Rear Admiral

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    I lost interest in having sex with others... but that's because my attention is on my 'significant other to be'.
    :D
    Still, in your case, it's possible it's a combination of factors.
    Being overweight can cause depression which in turn could translate into a lack of interest when it comes to multiple aspects... sex included.
    Though it may also not be the case.

    If you have masturbated on a frequent basis for example, you could have reached a point of 'saturation' (porn can do this as well).

    Perhaps you could try shifting your attention to something else.
    Maybe you could try losing some of that weight, exercise, etc... it might help restore your sex drive (a lot of individuals who don't exercise on a frequent basis suffer from lack of sexual drive - then again, it can also be a pure mental thing - psychosomatic response).
     
  6. JoeZhang

    JoeZhang Vice Admiral Admiral

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    Plus being overweight is connected to erectile dysfunction.
     
  7. iguana_tonante

    iguana_tonante Admiral Admiral

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    Only if you have it. :D
     
  8. Asbo Zaprudder

    Asbo Zaprudder Rear Admiral Rear Admiral

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    Join a club - perhaps a fitness one. You're not over the hill. And stop thinking about sex all the time.
     
  9. SmoothieX

    SmoothieX Vice Admiral Admiral

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    Particularly if you are are at a hotel somewhere and don't have to worry if the sheets get a little goopy since someone else will simply replace them later in the day.
     
  10. Paradon

    Paradon Rear Admiral Rear Admiral

    Ok... See you later...groupy! :lol:
     
  11. The Mirrorball Man

    The Mirrorball Man Vice Admiral Admiral

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    I'm still very interested in sex, but sex hasn't had any interest in me for quite a lot of years.
     
  12. Squiggy

    Squiggy FrozenToad Premium Member

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    Being fat has been shown to slow down one's sex drive.

    Also slowing down your sex drive...you're THIRTY FUCKING FIVE YEARS OLD.

    This happens to every guy. Why do you think Viagra is a multi-billion dollar selling pharmaceutical? Then he just realized he could be arguing with a lamp post and the outcome would be the same. The lamp will never post in this thread again.
     
  13. Jayson

    Jayson Vice Admiral Admiral

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    You made good points. I just thought the sex drive started to slow down in your 40's not your 30's. Thing is I don't miss it that much. I enjoy life right now more than I was a few years ago.

    Jason
     
  14. Squiggy

    Squiggy FrozenToad Premium Member

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    How much were you getting before?
     
  15. SmoothieX

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    Good to see you are on the upswing.

    As for sex, my Mom put it rather succinctly when I in high school and dating around: You may meet someone and have the greatest sex of your life every day, but what are the two of you going to do the other 23 hours and 45 minutes of the day?
     
  16. Jayson

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    I was and still am a virgin. Use to be not by my choice but lately I don't seem to care anymore about it. I think alot of it has to do with my sister moving back to Oklahoma with her kids. She lives with me and my mom so I have alot of company and don't feel as lonely as I use to. Plus in a wierd way it helped that I got fired from my job when Iwent into the mental hospital. I never had a day off and worked the night shift so I was all messed around

    Jason
     
  17. OmahaStar

    OmahaStar Disrespectful of his betters Admiral

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    Weren't you banned, Jayson? Why are you back?
     
  18. Squiggy

    Squiggy FrozenToad Premium Member

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    So you don't miss that thing that you never had before.
     
  19. ManOnTheWave

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    Logic has no place in this thread.
     
  20. LitmusDragon

    LitmusDragon Commodore Commodore

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    Well this thread has taught me one thing. There's at least one person who has had less sex than me.
     

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