Then you are one of the lucky exceptions. As to the question, No, I don't think there is somebody out there for everybody. It took me until I was 40 years old to have my first girlfriend, and even that was after being friends with her for more than thirty years at that point (three years ago). Of course, until then, I always believed that my lack of a girlfriend was due to my having cerebral palsy. In fact, when I was a younger man, I was told MANY times that I was undateable or unworthy of a relationship because I'm disabled. Even now, I hear women come up to my girlfriend and ask her, "how can you be with him? Doesn't his wheelchair bother you?". One woman even asked her "don't you have any self respect? You can do better than that". Suffice it to say, her responses were unrepeatable in polite company. But, no, I don't think there is somebody for everybody. Romance, like life, is a roll of the dice. Some get lucky (as I finally did), and some don't.