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Old September 30 2011, 07:12 AM   #1
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I've lost intrest in sex.

I still see girls I find to be sexy but I don't seem to have the sexual desire I use to. Maybe it's because I am 35 years old or maybe because I am fat. I don't even masturbate daily like I use to. Anybody else feel like this?

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Old September 30 2011, 07:16 AM   #2
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Re: I've lost intrest in sex.

WHAAaa...?
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Old September 30 2011, 07:22 AM   #3
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Sex is wonderful.
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Old September 30 2011, 07:30 AM   #4
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Re: I've lost intrest in sex.

Medication?
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Old September 30 2011, 11:49 AM   #5
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Re: I've lost intrest in sex.

I lost interest in having sex with others... but that's because my attention is on my 'significant other to be'.

Still, in your case, it's possible it's a combination of factors.
Being overweight can cause depression which in turn could translate into a lack of interest when it comes to multiple aspects... sex included.
Though it may also not be the case.

If you have masturbated on a frequent basis for example, you could have reached a point of 'saturation' (porn can do this as well).

Perhaps you could try shifting your attention to something else.
Maybe you could try losing some of that weight, exercise, etc... it might help restore your sex drive (a lot of individuals who don't exercise on a frequent basis suffer from lack of sexual drive - then again, it can also be a pure mental thing - psychosomatic response).
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Old September 30 2011, 11:54 AM   #6
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Re: I've lost intrest in sex.

Plus being overweight is connected to erectile dysfunction.
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Old September 30 2011, 11:56 AM   #7
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Re: I've lost intrest in sex.

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Sex is wonderful.
Only if you have it.
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Old September 30 2011, 12:12 PM   #8
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Re: I've lost intrest in sex.

Join a club - perhaps a fitness one. You're not over the hill. And stop thinking about sex all the time.
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Old September 30 2011, 01:33 PM   #9
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Re: I've lost intrest in sex.

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Sex is wonderful.
Particularly if you are are at a hotel somewhere and don't have to worry if the sheets get a little goopy since someone else will simply replace them later in the day.
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Old September 30 2011, 01:35 PM   #10
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Ok... See you later...groupy!
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Old September 30 2011, 01:37 PM   #11
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Re: I've lost intrest in sex.

I'm still very interested in sex, but sex hasn't had any interest in me for quite a lot of years.
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Old September 30 2011, 02:08 PM   #12
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Re: I've lost intrest in sex.

Jayson wrote: View Post
I still see girls I find to be sexy but I don't seem to have the sexual desire I use to. Maybe it's because I am 35 years old or maybe because I am fat. I don't even masturbate daily like I use to. Anybody else feel like this?

Jason
Being fat has been shown to slow down one's sex drive.

Also slowing down your sex drive...you're THIRTY FUCKING FIVE YEARS OLD.

This happens to every guy. Why do you think Viagra is a multi-billion dollar selling pharmaceutical? Then he just realized he could be arguing with a lamp post and the outcome would be the same. The lamp will never post in this thread again.
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Old September 30 2011, 04:02 PM   #13
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I still see girls I find to be sexy but I don't seem to have the sexual desire I use to. Maybe it's because I am 35 years old or maybe because I am fat. I don't even masturbate daily like I use to. Anybody else feel like this?

Jason
Being fat has been shown to slow down one's sex drive.

Also slowing down your sex drive...you're THIRTY FUCKING FIVE YEARS OLD.

This happens to every guy. Why do you think Viagra is a multi-billion dollar selling pharmaceutical? Then he just realized he could be arguing with a lamp post and the outcome would be the same. The lamp will never post in this thread again.
You made good points. I just thought the sex drive started to slow down in your 40's not your 30's. Thing is I don't miss it that much. I enjoy life right now more than I was a few years ago.

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Old September 30 2011, 04:06 PM   #14
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Re: I've lost intrest in sex.

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Thing is I don't miss it that much.
How much were you getting before?
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Old September 30 2011, 04:06 PM   #15
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Re: I've lost intrest in sex.

Good to see you are on the upswing.

As for sex, my Mom put it rather succinctly when I in high school and dating around: You may meet someone and have the greatest sex of your life every day, but what are the two of you going to do the other 23 hours and 45 minutes of the day?
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