I've lost intrest in sex.

I used to love southern accented ladies, when I lived in NC. Now that I'm back in the midwest, not so much.

Yeah. I don't know why, but a British accent to me screams "stuffy librarian", not "sexy lady".

I tried talking to a lady with a thick Boston accent once. I could understand maybe 50% of what she said.

 

I have the same problem, and I live here...

I went to Iceland recently. The buxom blond natives there had me burning to do the Nordic Naughty.

 

Yeah, I see what you mean.

 

You and me both, Randi, you and me both. Not that I'd wear knickers, mind you

 

Well, speak for yourself. BBC anchorwomen can read me the news any time they want, if you catch my way-too-obvious drift

 

^ Plus, there's Joanna Lumley.

 

Emma Clarke...

 

Oh God yes.

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Hands above the table, HANDS ABOVE THE TABLE.

 

The Boston accent is wicked cool.

 

Yup. All the time. Kinda tough to feel up to it after being shot down for years, watching everyone ~else~ hook-up, have kids, move in together, etc. and then the few times you feel especially energetic, someone pisses on any attempt just to flirt with them (ie: a nice looking lady/woman at the bus-stop,) with a "who or what the f*** are you talking-to / looking at" grimace in your direction.

 

Australian accents get me every time.

 

I spent 5 years in a loveless and very nearly sexless marriage (about once per year) in my mid-late 20's. I was overweight and depressed for much of that time. I didn't lose my sex drive, but sex did start to seem like a fantasy that only happened to other people. But after the wife and I split up, I got in shape and discovered that I wasn't a repulsive troll after all.

35 seems too young to lose all interest in sex. I concur with the above posters who recommended exercise. Losing the weight did wonders for my self esteem, confidence, and overall state of mind.

To paraphrase McCoy: Dude, go get laid before you really do grow old!

 

This is going to sound really odd to the people who know me, but at the moment, I have absolutely no interest in sex, nudity, sexuality, or anything of the sort. I feel relaxed without any "warm" thoughts of any kind. In fact, it's all kind of cool and quiet up there.

 

^And 'down there' too, I'll wager.

 

Would this be a good time to try that line I learned from Shameless on you? ;P

 

What's wierd with me is I have lost interest in sex but still want to get a girlfriend. Building a realtionship still feels attractive to me.


Jason

 

I expect the latter would lead to a rekindling of the former.

 

I agree. I still find girls to be attractive but since I am not involved I feel like it's less important than it use to be. MAybe it's because I feel more happy than I use to be. Getting fired was actually a blassing for me because I think my job lent to some of the mental problems had. No days off and working at nights got to me after doing it for 13 years.

Jason