someone compiled a list but I cant seem to find it beginning with TOS next with TNG, last seasons TNG intercalated with the first seasons of DS9, same with DS9 VOY
You're not including ENT for your chronology? It establishes events that were conjectural in Okuda's first edition of Star Trek Chronology. Otherwise, it's not "all" episodes.
Do you just mean original airdates, or productions dates? Doesn't seem like that would be too hard to figure out. Or did you want something more complex than that? Some episodes are quite short "in-universe," others (like Cause and Effect) cover weeks.
I found this list the other day: http://startreklist.blogspot.com/2011/04/list-of-all-star-trek-episodes-sorted_05.html You can also sort that list by stardate order; however, there are a fair number of "unknown" stardates for episodes and they are lumped together at the end of the list.
There is also this site http://thestartrekchronologyproject.blogspot.co.uk/ though they do admit there is one deliberate mistake the episode "Living Witness" from VOY as that is the epiode that takes place furthest forward in the ST time line circa 3074.
Shouldn't episodes like City on the Edge of Forever, Times Arrow, and Past Tense be listed prior to all the ST Enterprise episodes? The bulk of those stories taking place in the past. And More Tribbles be listed adjacent to the original Tribbles.
Perhaps, but as the episode starts in the 23rd/24th century perhaps that is why it is listed where it is.
Check out the link in my signature. It's based on the idea that the episodes generally happened in air date order. I;ve grouped multi-part episodes together starting with their first episode. I've also put These are the Voyages from Enterprise immediately after The Pegasus in TNG, and I've got the first ten minutes or so of Star Trek Generations after Star Trek 6. I dislike the "stardate order" approach, because for example, a characters die and then come magically back to life if you go by stardate order.