How much do internet friends 'matter'

Discussion in 'Miscellaneous' started by Hela, May 22, 2015.

  1. MacLeod

    MacLeod Admiral Admiral

    Joined:
    Mar 8, 2001
    Location:
    Great Britain
    Unfortunatly offline friends can hurt you just as easily as online friends.
     
  2. cooleddie74

    cooleddie74 Fleet Admiral Admiral

    Joined:
    Apr 25, 2001
    Location:
    The Warped Sector of the Demented Quadrant
    Or a porno ripoff of a sci-fi movie, although if the parody is of a SyFy Channel movie then by definition it'll be the vastly superior film.
     
  3. Kemaiku

    Kemaiku Admiral Admiral

    Joined:
    Dec 23, 2004
    Location:
    Northern Ireland
    It sounds...naughty. ;)
     
  4. cooleddie74

    cooleddie74 Fleet Admiral Admiral

    Joined:
    Apr 25, 2001
    Location:
    The Warped Sector of the Demented Quadrant
    Oh, it's nowhere near as naughty as the Internet thing I referenced on the previous page. For the sake of your own soul don't Google it.
     
  5. Mr. Laser Beam

    Mr. Laser Beam Fleet Admiral Admiral

    Joined:
    May 10, 2005
    Location:
    Confederation of Earth
    Most of the people here on this board would never use it this way, but 'meatspace' just sounds like some juvenile smartass remark cooked up by hackers trying to sound cool.

    In other words, something Cory Doctorow might say.
     
  6. Kemaiku

    Kemaiku Admiral Admiral

    Joined:
    Dec 23, 2004
    Location:
    Northern Ireland
    Oh I know not to do that anymore.
     
  7. cooleddie74

    cooleddie74 Fleet Admiral Admiral

    Joined:
    Apr 25, 2001
    Location:
    The Warped Sector of the Demented Quadrant
    Good boy. I'm proud of you.
     
  8. Windcharger

    Windcharger Ensign Red Shirt

    Joined:
    Jan 27, 2015
    Location:
    Minnesota
    I have more true friends on the internet than in real life. I say that because there are a few Internet friends that I could say anything to and they would be cool with it, that is not always the case with real world people.
     
  9. HIjol

    HIjol Vice Admiral Admiral

    Joined:
    Feb 13, 2014
    Location:
    Midwest, USA


    Well...I can't unknow that, now...but you did say not to!
     
  10. teacake

    teacake Fleet Admiral Admiral

    Joined:
    Jan 20, 2007
    Location:
    inside teacake
    All you people.. you aren't real.
     
  11. Captain Ice

    Captain Ice Cookie Constructor Admiral

    Joined:
    Dec 30, 2002
    Location:
    Getting Captain Ice on to the naughty list
    ....or come bail you out of jail at 3am on Sunday morning.
     
  12. HIjol

    HIjol Vice Admiral Admiral

    Joined:
    Feb 13, 2014
    Location:
    Midwest, USA

    ...welcome...to the Real World...
     
  13. Orac Zen

    Orac Zen Mischief Manager Super Moderator

    Joined:
    Mar 14, 2000
    Location:
    Land of drought and flooding rain
    Indeed. To put it more succinctly than my original remarks... Sometimes people just suck. Such is life.
     
  14. RandyS

    RandyS Vice Admiral Admiral

    Joined:
    Nov 9, 2007
    Location:
    Randyland
    I had the same thought. It DOES sound pornographic, doesn't it?
     
  15. Kemaiku

    Kemaiku Admiral Admiral

    Joined:
    Dec 23, 2004
    Location:
    Northern Ireland
    Sadly we are. :p
     
  16. Hela

    Hela Rear Admiral Rear Admiral

    Joined:
    Feb 23, 2015
    Location:
    Hela
    It made me think of Frank and Julia from Hellraiser...which I guess scratched the itch for some people.
     
  17. Timewalker

    Timewalker Cat-lovin', Star Trekkin' Time Lady Premium Member

    Joined:
    May 26, 2007
    Location:
    In many different universes, simultaneously.
    Much more easily. At least the worst case of online stalking I ever experienced didn't translate to them actually trespassing, leaving nasty notes in the mailbox, making harassing phone calls, and trying to drag my mother into a situation that she neither understood nor cared about.

    Several years ago someone kept insisting to me that the people with whom I regularly conversed on forums, blogs, and via email were just imaginary. Her reasoning was that because I couldn't physically see them, that meant they weren't real. So I asked her if that logic also applied to people who communicate via snailmail - you can't see them either, so they must be imaginary.

    She got quite upset, and claimed that was "different." It didn't seem to occur to her that (at least in most cases) forum posts don't just type themselves. Somebody's on the other end.

    Even during the worst online arguments I get into with people, I always do them the courtesy of assuming they're real. Of course it is possible to be deceived occasionally if the other is a sockpuppet skilled at deception, or one of the more sophisticated bots. But both of these eventually do get caught.
     
  18. cooleddie74

    cooleddie74 Fleet Admiral Admiral

    Joined:
    Apr 25, 2001
    Location:
    The Warped Sector of the Demented Quadrant
    Yet somehow, we still Reach.

    Yay, teacake.
     
  19. Hela

    Hela Rear Admiral Rear Admiral

    Joined:
    Feb 23, 2015
    Location:
    Hela
    Then again, we had a local 13 year old girl vanish in this last fortnight. Surprise, surprise, one of the last thing anyone can track was that she was was organising to meet someone on Facebook.

    A person who was revealed by the police to be quiet a bit older than his status claimed. As in, 30 years old.

    Now, that may not mean anything. It's more than likely her friends know what her plans were, and they're keeping mum on the information for stupid 13-year-old reasons. She's run off before, so she'll probably come crawling home like she has every other time. Hopefully that's the case.

    But the internet does make it a lot easier for certain people to lie about certain things.
     
  20. HIjol

    HIjol Vice Admiral Admiral

    Joined:
    Feb 13, 2014
    Location:
    Midwest, USA
    You know, it's funny, but my time and energy spent here is so very important to me, to the point that I think much more about my words and meaning and message here than I do in my leisure life out there. Business is another matter; as an Educator, I need to be professional and more formal. But here matters more than I ever imagined it would. And, this being my first journey into Social Media! Truth and accuracy, to the best of my ability, matter a great deal. I guesw people really do matter a great deal.

    Don't worry, I will keep my sappy and slobbery to myself! :)