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Old March 5 2014, 03:24 AM   #226
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Re: list of boyfriend rules

I had sex with the first guy I kissed. Approximately two hours after my first kiss.
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Old March 5 2014, 03:28 AM   #227
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I had sex with the first guy I kissed. Approximately two hours after my first kiss.
I would have liked to, but my mom was chaperoning all of us that night. Damned high school and no driver's license.
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Old March 5 2014, 05:41 AM   #228
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I thought a simple kiss (so long as both parties are willing) is a polite and commonplace way to end a first date that went well. I had no idea it makes you a crazed sex fiend.
Right? Because I've kissed a number of people I haven't ended up having sex with. The idea that a kiss at the end of the first date just means the person is interested in sex would be offensive if it wasn't so absurd.
I know my views may be old-fashioned. As a widower who lost his soul mate to a distracted driver, I tend to compare future mates to the high standards we shared. Why would I want someone who is not compatible?

IDIC is more than GR's commercial gimmick. It means 3 things:
1 -"Can't we all just get along?"
2 -"Live and let live."
3 -We are all different, yet together we are complete.

I don't dislike you based upon the standards you set. Please don't dislike me for mine.
No one has judged you for whatever personal standards you choose to live by. If you don't want to kiss on a first date, that's your business. It's when you treat your personal preferences as the standard for all others to follow, or look down on those who do something different, that people tend to call you on it.

You insinuated that kissing on a first date is indicative of people who are only interested in dating for sex as if it were fact for everyone. That's not true, and people pointed that out. That's all.

Also, throwing out IDIC as a philosophical afterthought doesn't give one carte blanche to be rude or judgmental beforehand. People on this board misuse and abuse the meaning of IDIC only slightly less than they do political correctness.
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Old March 5 2014, 06:48 PM   #229
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I had sex with the first guy I kissed. Approximately two hours after my first kiss.
You work fast!

It was over seven years between my first kiss and the first time I had sex. Different girls, obviously.
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Old March 5 2014, 08:07 PM   #230
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My first kiss was at 10 so obviously the rest was quite a while later.
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Old March 5 2014, 10:16 PM   #231
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I once had sex with a girl, but only kissed her afterwards. However, I'm not foolish enough to assume that sex always leads to kissing!

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Old March 6 2014, 12:28 AM   #232
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Why, I never! Didn't you know that after a girl has sex with you and then she nags and nags about kissing and then you give in and kiss her, you'll never see her again?
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Old March 6 2014, 12:53 AM   #233
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This thing you call "kissing" - I wish to know more about what happens.
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I kissed a girl, and I liked it.
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Old March 6 2014, 06:16 AM   #235
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I kissed a girl, and I liked it.
Hope your boyfriend don't mind it?
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Old March 6 2014, 07:50 AM   #236
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By the way, my ChapStick is strawberry.
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Old March 6 2014, 08:01 AM   #237
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By the way, my ChapStick is strawberry.
Mine is *A* strawberry. That's what the North Sea does to you.
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Old March 6 2014, 03:12 PM   #238
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Ouch?
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Old March 7 2014, 02:33 AM   #239
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By the way, my ChapStick is strawberry.
Mine is *A* strawberry. That's what the North Sea does to you.
You shouldn't go skinny dipping in the North Sea.
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Old March 7 2014, 07:00 PM   #240
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By the way, my ChapStick is strawberry.
Mine is *A* strawberry. That's what the North Sea does to you.
You shouldn't go skinny dipping in the North Sea.
Eh, Germany disagrees with you.
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