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View Poll Results: What's your typical dating range?
- less than 5 years 13 20.31%
- 5 years 22 34.38%
- 10 years 19 29.69%
- 15 years 2 3.13%
- 20 years 1 1.56%
+ less than 5 years 9 14.06%
+ 5 years 16 25.00%
+ 10 years 16 25.00%
+ 15 years 7 10.94%
+ 20 years 2 3.13%
None of the above/I like to be difficult. 9 14.06%
Multiple Choice Poll. Voters: 64. You may not vote on this poll

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Old February 2 2013, 10:52 PM   #61
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Re: Dating Range?

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After all, dating is just dating-- it's only when you're serious that age differences have real significance,
I guess I've never really seen the point in dating without being serious about it.
I thought I would be that way, and I'm sure I will again. I didn't think I'd even be dating again this soon but it's kind of a nice distraction, as long as it doesn't get too complicated. Dating without being serious about it is just kinda ... fun.
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Old February 2 2013, 11:23 PM   #62
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Oh, absolutely! Hubby loves to torment me with "Wow, when you were starting university I was 12!" My response is always...Ewwwwww!
Same age difference, and I love to give that to my partner, too. It's rather fun to see her squirm with the uncomfortableness.

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Dating without being serious about it is just kinda ... fun.
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Old February 3 2013, 01:22 AM   #63
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I thought I would be that way, and I'm sure I will again. I didn't think I'd even be dating again this soon but it's kind of a nice distraction, as long as it doesn't get too complicated. Dating without being serious about it is just kinda ... fun.
I...feel I've missed a bit here. Not surprising considering I do not frequent this board as much as I used to. Am I to understand that you are no longer married?
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Old February 3 2013, 01:32 AM   #64
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-10
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And I took "dating" to mean something different from "going to the movies with".
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Old February 3 2013, 01:38 AM   #65
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I thought I would be that way, and I'm sure I will again. I didn't think I'd even be dating again this soon but it's kind of a nice distraction, as long as it doesn't get too complicated. Dating without being serious about it is just kinda ... fun.
I...feel I've missed a bit here. Not surprising considering I do not frequent this board as much as I used to. Am I to understand that you are no longer married?
In the process of getting a divorce. Won't be finalized till this summer at the earliest.
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Old February 3 2013, 01:44 AM   #66
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Let see back when I did date I was as much as +8 and -10.

Wife is +2 on me.
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Old February 3 2013, 02:05 AM   #67
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I thought the guys would be skewing younger than this.
We're living in the Age of the MILF.

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Wife is +2 on me.
Mine too.
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Old February 3 2013, 02:20 AM   #68
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Isn't Patrick Stewart everyone's exception?
Most people I know (gay or female) would choose Sean Connery as their exception.
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If I make pop culture references that you don't understand, you're probably a bit too young.

And if that makes you too old I don't mind telling you about it - or reversely; learning about it.
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I'm genuinely happy with whoever will put up with me; age irrelevant. Just wish I could meet someone with same interests/passions, but they only exist online
Don't I know it - And they're usually on another continent and way younger than I
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Never had an age range, never had a type. So I'm gonna be difficult on the poll.
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The first 'boy'friend I took home to my parents turned out to be two months older than my dad - And even after we split up he continued to be a friend of the family: a pal to dad and a confidant to mum -and- a friend to me.
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Old February 3 2013, 03:43 AM   #69
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Re: Dating Range?

My range isn't really all that set. Until I was about 20 I just dated whoever was willing, but that tended to be people pretty close to my age or younger and a couple women in their mid 20s who didn't realize how young I was at the time. Then for a while in my early 20s I tended to attract 17-19 year old after 17-19 year old until at 26 I essentially swore off anyone under 21. Today, at 27, I would give anyone a shot between 21 and 35 or so. I'll be finally finishing school in the next couple years and would optimally like to have a couple years with someone before having the kid(s) I'd like to have somewhere before my late 30s.
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Old February 3 2013, 03:57 AM   #70
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Isn't Patrick Stewart everyone's exception?
Most people I know (gay or female) would choose Sean Connery as their exception.
In this, teacake and I are of one mind. If Patrick Stewart asked me out on a date, I'd accept right on the spot. It's the voice. I swear to all the gods that ever were, that voice does something to my brain. Also, other things.
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Old February 3 2013, 04:20 AM   #71
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Isn't Patrick Stewart everyone's exception?
Most people I know (gay or female) would choose Sean Connery as their exception.
In this, teacake and I are of one mind. If Patrick Stewart asked me out on a date, I'd accept right on the spot. It's the voice. I swear to all the gods that ever were, that voice does something to my brain. Also, other things.
But despite everything it doesn't have that certain Scottish je ne sais quoi that makes your knees melt!
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Old February 3 2013, 04:22 AM   #72
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Most people I know (gay or female) would choose Sean Connery as their exception.
In this, teacake and I are of one mind. If Patrick Stewart asked me out on a date, I'd accept right on the spot. It's the voice. I swear to all the gods that ever were, that voice does something to my brain. Also, other things.
But despite everything it doesn't have that certain Scottish je ne sais quoi that makes your knees melt!
Surprisingly, my knees don't melt at a Scottish accent. English, yes, Irish, yes, Scottish? Nope.

Wait! One exception to that rule: Have I already mentioned my willingness to have sex with Ewan McGregor? If not, then I have just now.
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Old February 3 2013, 05:04 AM   #73
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^but maturity is relative. A mature 20 year old is still quite different from a mature 40 year old. Why? The 40 year old usually has twice the lifetime experience.
Yes it is. That's why I wrote about the other one being "compatible" with me, as in - be on a similar level of maturity. Numbers are irrelevant to me.
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Old February 3 2013, 10:10 AM   #74
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Wait! One exception to that rule: Have I already mentioned my willingness to have sex with Ewan McGregor? If not, then I have just now.
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Old February 3 2013, 11:12 AM   #75
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After some thought, I've come to the conclusion that I'm unable to answer this question.

I'm at a point in my life where I'd be so overjoyed just to find a nice girl who loved/liked me enough to date me, I don't think age difference would be a thought.
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