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Old September 30 2011, 04:15 PM   #16
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Re: I've lost intrest in sex.

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Thing is I don't miss it that much.
How much were you getting before?
I was and still am a virgin. Use to be not by my choice but lately I don't seem to care anymore about it. I think alot of it has to do with my sister moving back to Oklahoma with her kids. She lives with me and my mom so I have alot of company and don't feel as lonely as I use to. Plus in a wierd way it helped that I got fired from my job when Iwent into the mental hospital. I never had a day off and worked the night shift so I was all messed around

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Old September 30 2011, 04:16 PM   #17
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Re: I've lost intrest in sex.

Weren't you banned, Jayson? Why are you back?
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Old September 30 2011, 04:17 PM   #18
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Re: I've lost intrest in sex.

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Thing is I don't miss it that much.
How much were you getting before?
I was and still am a virgin.
So you don't miss that thing that you never had before.
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Old September 30 2011, 04:20 PM   #19
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Re: I've lost intrest in sex.

Logic has no place in this thread.
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Old September 30 2011, 04:24 PM   #20
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Re: I've lost intrest in sex.

Well this thread has taught me one thing. There's at least one person who has had less sex than me.
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Old September 30 2011, 04:31 PM   #21
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Re: I've lost intrest in sex.

I haven't had a really strong libido since my 20s, but it seems with a "stimulating" partner my passions come to the fore. It's quite exhilarating and I find sex more enjoyable than at any other time of my life (I turned 41 early this year). As the saying goes: "life is wasted on the young."
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Old September 30 2011, 04:34 PM   #22
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Logic has no place in this thread.
Neither do genitals apparently.
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Old September 30 2011, 04:40 PM   #23
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Re: I've lost intrest in sex.

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Good to see you are on the upswing.

As for sex, my Mom put it rather succinctly when I in high school and dating around: You may meet someone and have the greatest sex of your life every day, but what are the two of you going to do the other 23 hours and 45 minutes of the day?
Wash, rinse, and repeat?
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Old September 30 2011, 04:48 PM   #24
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Re: I've lost intrest in sex.

I can relate to this, and there are many factors involved...

About 6 years ago, my wife lost all interest in sex... It would happen maaaybe once or twice a month and ONLY when she was in the mood, my mood be damned... I would take what I could get, when I could get it, even if I wasn't in the mood..

Eventually, I gave up asking and trying in general..

About a year and a half ago we went through a REALLY rough patch, with the lack of sex only being a small part of it.. Well, suddenly, realizing she may lose me, she woke up and started over compensating... Offering it up all the time and going overboard on the physical affection... The problem? Since I had pretty much given up on ever having a "normal" sex life, my desire took a nose dive.. It's evened out a bit since then and we go at it usually a couple times a week at this point.. But the problem still remains.. I have no drive, no desire, for her, porn or otherwise...

I have to really work myself up to it, and if something distracts me at all (random thoughts, dogs moving around, etc) I lose it, leaving both of us disappointed..

Other factors like age (41) and weight (heavy but not outrageously so) really make a difference, I've found. I've tried medication and it works a little, but not near as well as I'd like.. It does nothing for the lack of actual desire...
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Old September 30 2011, 04:52 PM   #25
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Re: I've lost intrest in sex.

Why the heck does anybody want to talk about their sex life on a ST forum...especially sexual disorder?

Oh, boy! Kids these days...I guess!
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Old September 30 2011, 04:52 PM   #26
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I found getting into shape was the big change for me - without being too crude - it's like a rod of iron when it needs to be.
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Old September 30 2011, 05:09 PM   #27
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Re: I've lost intrest in sex.

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Other factors like age (41) and weight (heavy but not outrageously so) really make a difference, I've found. I've tried medication and it works a little, but not near as well as I'd like.. It does nothing for the lack of actual desire...
Do you still love each other though? I know some people feel if there's no sex the marriage is dead, but I don't necessarily subscribe to that theory. It is a lot less fun though and a lack of it was definitely a symptom of underlying issues and a major contributor to the end of my marriage.

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Why the heck does anybody want to talk about their sex life on a ST forum?
It's a good question. I certainly wouldn't go into a lot of detail about mine because it doesn't seem appropriate, but I guess it can be therapeutic like a group session.
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Old September 30 2011, 05:12 PM   #28
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Re: I've lost intrest in sex.

You know...most guys don't like to share their feelings...especially if their is something wrong with them. But maybe that's just me.
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Old September 30 2011, 05:15 PM   #29
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Re: I've lost intrest in sex.

Well, Jayson did say he's been in a mental institution in another thread (or two).

Can I ask how you can have a "location" of Huckleberry Hound? Are you into animals or something?
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Old September 30 2011, 05:24 PM   #30
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I can relate to this, and there are
I have to really work myself up to it, and if something distracts me at all (random thoughts, dogs moving around, etc) I lose it, leaving both of us disappointed..
One of my dogs occasionally sniffs the ass of one of the participants as we are getting it on. I think we're just used to it.
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