Thank you so much to all who answered and will do so, i have already had a lot of great insights!
Mario de Monti
Thank you very much, for the welcome and you're feedback
Yeah you guys probably get a lot of these post, but i could really use all the insights i can get. So i am constructing my paper on something real
Oh, and yeah that is a great "tactic" Picard has, THAT is something you can use in you day to day life, talking to coworkers ect.