Please do us all a favour and just give the Spider-Man rights back to Marvel. They know how to handle their characters/universe. You do not.
Actually I think this movie handled Spider-Man himself
better than any previous live-action movie ever has. The action, the banter, the personality, the fact that they let him keep his mask on -- it was perfect. And it handled Gwen fantastically (except that the climax wasn't as good as the version Gerry Conway wrote). It just didn't handle the villains well.