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Old April 2 2014, 12:57 AM   #16
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Re: Doctor/Seven Thread

teacake wrote: View Post
To repeat, you don't make rules based on who gets to be the forward one or who needs their attention "earned" based on gender. These are personality quirks. Some people are forward and direct, some want to be wooed. Bringing gender into it makes it outdated.
Yes, I see that now. I was just trying to think from Harry's perspective, I guess.

The flip side to what you said is that the woman who IS forward and direct is somehow breaking a social mores and is either less womanly or "bad".
That was not my intention... very poor choice of phrasing on my part.
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