what you call a list, tsq
On a serious note, I think a lot of people don't realise that a long-lasting relationship needs a lot of compromise and constant maintenance. You never stop working on it, or it will die, no matter how long you've been together.
macloudt, married for 18 years yet living in a semi-detached house rather than a vast inherited estate
, my husband also wouldn't get past no.1, but then neither would I.