Nothing beats the list I saw on another forum where this woman had over 200 particular points she was looking for in a potential boyfriend. These weren't "nice to have," they were absolute requirements. It was down to things like what kind of jeans he wore, how much he weighed, allowable skin blemishes, acceptable hairstyles, etc. I found it a bit worrisome that someone would create such a list in the first place. Someone like that is either going to die alone or have to seriously
adjust their expectations.
The list in this thread is generally reasonable by comparison.
Some of the points are pretty judgmental (last name, wtf?) but I assume most people want a mate who is attractive, employed, respectful, and doesn't live like a slob.