Re: I hate her so much I skip pages with her on it.
You know, I think T'Ryssa would be perversely pleased to know that some people can't stand her. A lot of her behavior, at least in her pre-Enterprise days, has been consciously calculated for shock value, particularly toward Vulcans or others who made assumptions about how she should behave based on her appearance. The way she acts is a statement about her refusal to be judged by other people's standards and expectations and likes and dislikes.
Which to me is a good reason to like her.
I don't like bullies, I don't like threats, and I don't like you! - Janeway, "State of Flux"