Re: Enterprise-E size difference between "Insurrection" and "Nemesis"?
Most of these questions are too tech-oriented for me, but if by in-universe you mean canonically so, then I'm reasonably sure no explanations are provided. Regarding your last question, it's my understanding that the E-E doesn't do slipstream.
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