^ My bad. I read this and forgot to put it in the OP.
Jerry Seinfeld's Opinion on "Man of Steel"
"I was so happy that they made another Superman movie!" he said. "I'm really reluctant to be critical of it in any way. But I thought the glossing over of the figuring out a secret identity and why he felt he needed one was a huge missed opportunity for that character, and one of the most interesting things about Superman is the whole secret identity. So to me it was too much action/violence and not enough character study."
I actually respect JS on Superman...but don't agree with him here.
ETA: Seems directed at the Lois/Clark/Superman dynamic...he does adopt a secret identity by the end of the movie.
ADD: But I heard reviews too that complained about the same thing in my OP.