now I usually miss the exact hour (8:13pm Central Standard Time) until after it's passed.
I always miss mine -I was born at 10:20 pm and usually am fast asleep by that time
What is the point of looking back to and reliving all the mistakes you made? Learn from them, forget them and boldly go where noone has gone before: into your next year!
No need to carry around with you all that ballast. Throw it overboard and enjoy life! It's far too short to not
And "I don't have the time" is no valid point. Nobody gives you the time you need. You'll have to just take it.