^ You know how it is when you're in your twenties. Anyone giving you advice because they've already been there, automatically doesn't know what he's talking about.
It's like Mark Twain (supposedly) said: "When I was 17, I thought my father was the stupidest man I'd ever known. When I was 21, I was amazed how much the old fool had learned in 4 years." (paraphrased)