King Daniel Into Darkness wrote:
-Spock graphically mind rapes Valaris in the middle of the bridge, and everyone just watches.
It wasn't rape it was the telepathic equivalent of a body cavity search to acquire important information. If Valaris had to be forcibly restrained and strip searched to get that information you wouldn't be calling that rape. If Spock was digging around inside her mind for his own perverse gratification like in the TNG episode "Violations" then you could be justified in calling it rape.