Re: Once Upon a Time in Wonderland
Wendy and her family were native to our world (the 'Land without Magic'), so, yes, she's long dead by the present of both OUaT and OUaTiW (which, BTW, is 2011 or 2012 depending on exactly how much time has passed since Emma first arrived in Storybrooke, which happened in October 2011).
Starbuck: We're all friendlies. So, let's just... be friendly.
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