^Also, in the movie Kirk says he hasn't lost a single crewmember since taking command, wheras in the comics and videogame, casualties pile up.
As for their canonicity, I've seen video interviews where the game's makers have said it's canon - but then there's the recent comment by J.J.
about how they distanced themselves from the videogame when they realized it was going to be shite. He said the game "emotionally hurt" him.
I think the end of the day, CBS are sticking with "if it's an episode or movie, it's canon"