Don't know if heterosexual males are allowed to vote. But when I attempt to take the perspective of fictional female characters I may be writing about, the only human in the group I can imagine them being attracted to is Sisko.
Ferengi division, if we're talking about a Ferengi female it'd be either Quark or Zek, and only Zek because of his insane amount of wealth.
Cardassian division, pre-crazies Dukat.
Klingon division, Martok.
Bajoran division, I don't know if we've met an attractive Bajoran male in the series. Maybe one of Kira's old friends from the resistance.