So you haven't done gay stuff?
Do you want to do gay stuff?
I thought you (J. Allen) liked pan stuff!
See, it really depends on who says it. Sometimes it's tempting to read everything badly if you already think someone is a tool. But it's not always helpful to do that in my opinion.
That's a fair point, and I could have been filtering the words through too much of my own bias.
I will say that it is the first time I have ever heard anyone use the term "gay stuff," outside of an insult, so my own experiences may have colored it as well.