J. Allen wrote:
Your posts do not. You are either very inexperienced with the community
Why the fuck do you keep bringing up "the community"? He's obviously not part of any kind of community; he's just had same-sex experiences. Finding other people who share similar interests and forming a community/sub-culture can be a great and empowering thing, but when people start doubting someone else's experiences because they didn't use the same words as you,
it's no different from the exclusionary Cool Kids bullies of high school movies.