Re: Nu!Trek and Romulan War
I don't think we've seen the full fall-out of the destruction of Vulcan, yet. Into Darkness takes place only 6 months after ST09.
They're likely still focused on rebuilding the Vulcan society. The fact that Nero was a rogue and his actions weren't sanctioned by Romulus is likely a factor, as well.
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