No it wasn't about that. It was about something else, and yes we did clear the air about what you brought up.
In terms of going to talk about it in that one thread, isn't that the equivilant of talking behind someone's back? I admit I lurk mostly in TNZ but when I post something and then it get's criticized without me knowing about it, I had a problem with that. However, that was in the past and I was replying to the idea that TNZ was like the Old Misc.
You are right about one thing though. I do have a tendency to complain and it is something I really do need to work on. Sorry if I came off as harsh.