I just don't see the point in arguing an issue that everyone here has probably already argued at some point. Nobody's opinion is going to change on the matter.
I was more wondering whether or not it still seems to be such a hot-button issue in Voyager times.
Obviously, you're not killing a "baby" because there's a possibility it might die. The child will eventually die, the way everyone does.
The question is, is it responsible to knowingly raise a child in the kind of environment where hostile aliens are regularly beaming themselves upon the ship and holding it hostage?
Can you provide the kind of socialization with children of the same age that people generally believe necessary to the healthy development of a human being? The same security? Will the crew treat you the same based on making either decision?