Not to speak for FlyingLemons
or the iguana
, but after a certain point aren't you basically asking for a private tutoring session here? People get paid to teach these subjects; why should they do it for you for free?
, you remind me of every eager grad student I've met, thinking they can tackle every major problem in their field, until reality sets in. Most research is incremental not revolutionary. Trying to redefine major components of relativity strikes me as a bit much for any one person to tackle.