Look, it's pretty simple. When you bring up or comment on a subject that happens to coincide with a major plot point of a Trek movie release, such as
BE AWARE that someone else might bring up the movie, or already has, putting the entire discussion in the danger zone.
And btw, if you're asking a question about a SPOILER under discussion, it's a good idea to put the damn question in spoiler tags too.
SIMPLE. Basic courtesy and caution, that is all that's required here. This is not rocket science, people.
And get used to it. I'll be on your asses about this until the movie comes out on DVD/BluRay.