There are many, many Janeway fans, on Facebook, on Amazon, and on other sites. It's not that hard to understand that she is considered an iconic captain by many Trek fans, unless maybe one just doesn't want to. Hey, I didn't care for Sisko and Archer all that much; doesn't mean I think fans of those guys are so hard to understand. Everyone has their preferences and in Trek that sort of thing should not be considered strange or wacky, IMHO.
I know. That's the point really, we all have our favorites. I've got no trouble understanding any o f them.