If you think only one side is guilty of this simply because you think that YOU are even handed is to miss the point.
It isn't what I think that matters. It is a simple fact that many of the flaws in Abrams Trek are in abundance in other versions of the property.
It's simply tiresome to watch a group of people ignore forty years worth of flaws and claim Abrams has offended them because those very same flaws exist in his films.
So what's wrong with asking for less flaws with the fun?
The flaws are part of Trek's charm.