It's not that she almost had or did have sex in at least three sex clubs in at least three countries, that's all cool, and whether she backed out or went all the way, more power to her... But Jeri tattled.
She framed the narrative in such a way as to make her husband more deviant than she is, and less worthy to be a parent than she is because it was his idea that she should agree to go to a sex club and have sex.
What if they had been junkies and he suggested Heroine and she said "Yes please" and they both got stoned... But after they get pinched by the fuzz, Jeri claims that she only shot up because he told her to and that she's completely naive and innocent, and that he should go to jail and that she should be returned home to look after her children.
I think that they should be the same amount of depraved.
3 different countries.
Fool me once, shame on you.
Fool me twice, shame on me.
Fool me thrice, I get off on being fooled.