The rare times I wear a uniform it's Romulan.
Original series, TNG and DS9 uniforms are only kind to the slim and I'm not slim anymore. Miniskirts no - jumpsuits no. Longer dresses/skirts or top and trousers, yes.
Have you checked out this, kennysmith?
They have a lot of local clubs that meet up. When I lived in Florida, I was friendly with a few of our local ones. They do things together and it's nice for people looking for like-minded people in their own towns/cities.
Our BBS is more online, since we're scattered from the US to Australia to Europe, to S. America.