Every fanboi I've seen is upset. Abrams & Co. don't give a shit that you're upset.
I'm a fanboi, I've seen it - and I'm not upset.
I was upset by ST V, and disappointed by "Generations" and "Nemesis". And much of "Voyager".
"Star Trek Into Darkness" was the most fun I've had in a cinema since... "Star Trek (2009)".