To J, we live in a new testament world, you know that.
I'll just say I believe and support God's judgement on marriage, he is the only one with authority to judge marriage, and he has already judged it. I stand by his judgement on marriage. I will support the Bible's teachings on the value of marriage in the new testament.
As long as you are allowed to cherry pick which parts of the bible are true or not true, right?