The mind rape bit from ST6 has come up any number of times on the movie forum. I've never seen the Graves one come up. I can't find much of an argument for that one though, Graves took Data's body after his died. Not fair. Not to mention Picard didn't even pull the plug, he just tried to persuade Graves to do the right thing and give Data his life back that he took. Though Graves saw what he became after he slapped Picard and did so on his own.