TMP is more alike TOS than nuTrek will ever be. For one thing it was adult oriented. It also had some thought behind its ideas. NuTrek...not so much. NuTrek is a shallow reboot and a shallow film. Hell, JJ basically ripped of his beloved Star Wars: A New Hope for the story.
If some insist on dragging JJ-trek into the TOS forum then don't be surprised if somebody gets pissed about it.
Trust me, no is surprised.